Family gatherings and festivities are supposed to bring loved ones together, but Greta’s 40th wedding anniversary had the opposite effect. Greta urged her daughter-in-law to bring only one child in order to make space in her crowded home. What she thought was a reasonable request suddenly caused tension, which grew into a major schism. Greta…
Family gatherings and festivities are supposed to bring loved ones together, but Greta’s 40th wedding anniversary had the opposite effect.
Greta urged her daughter-in-law to bring only one child in order to make space in her crowded home.
What she thought was a reasonable request suddenly caused tension, which grew into a major schism. Greta is now seeking advice on how to resolve the matter.
“My husband and I are celebrating our 40th anniversary with 12 of our closest family members. Our home is small,
so I asked my son’s wife to only bring my 9-year-old grandson and leave her other three kids (13, 11, and 10) at home.
. My son quickly agreed, and the three of them came to the celebration. However, the whole night, she was oddly quiet.
I almost fainted when I opened it and saw all my belongings from my son’s house, where I occasionally stay.
There was a note saying, “You’re not welcome to stay at my house anymore.” Sh0cked, I chose not to react to avoid creating further conflict.
However, the next day, my grandson called me in tears. He told me that his parents had a huge fight, and his dad had left.
I rushed to their house and froze when I found the place in complete disarray.
My daughter-in-law turned to me and said she wanted to leave my son because he didn’t stand up for her kids.
